I had been wanting to post this story since Sunday, and I just found out that yesterday was Human Trafficking Awareness Day (thanks to my friend, Emily!) So, that makes this post all the more timely.
So, as you probably know, our team volunteers at a local government-run facility for orphans and youth who have been removed from unstable home situations. This particular facility previously housed a juvenile detention center, so many people still see it as the place for bad kids. While part of our ministry there is to encourage and affirm the kids by pointing them to God's love, I also feel like another aspect of our involvement is to serve as a prophetic witness to our neighbors. The fact that we willingly spend our time there and can speak of the kids beyond the typical characterization as "naughty" is quite remarkable to many people. The kids who end up at this center mostly come from Gauteng Province, but some come from other parts of South Africa and even other African countries.
This story is about a girl, we'll call her Mary, who arrived at the center several months ago from a country in East Africa. You see, Mary was an orphan in her home country. I don't know the full story, but from what I've heard, a nice neighbor approached Mary and whoever was taking care of her and offered to bring her to South Africa for a better education. Mary had been trying to attend school and take care of her younger siblings. I'm sure the opportunity sounded appealing to Mary -- it was probably a bit scary too, but it was a chance at a new future! Or, maybe Mary didn't even know what was promised and was just told to go without asking any questions. So, Mary went with this neighbor. When they arrived in South Africa, Mary learned that she was actually part of a deal with an older South African man who wanted to take her as his wife. Mary is14 years old. So, this neighbor who had fed Mary on hopes of a new life was now handing her over to this strange man -- not quite the future that Mary had imagined. This is no way for a 14 year old girl to live, and Mary knew that. So, she somehow escaped the man's possession and sought refuge at the Catholic church that she had attended with the neighbor when she first arrived in South Africa. Oh yeah, one more thing -- Mary didn't speak a word of any South African language. Why would she? So, she found someone at the church who could translate to the priest and explain her situation. The priest contacted the officials and thus, Mary ended up at the facility where my team volunteers.
The story gets better. I met Mary after she arrived at the Center, but she was shy and hesitant because she couldn't speak the local language. As I've learned -- if you can't speak the local language here, it can feel like you're on a different planet! You have no idea what's going on around you and you can't share your feelings, confusions, or questions with anyone. And most of the kids who suddenly became her dorm-mates were probably unfamiliar with a peer from another country, so what could they do?
My teammate Luc and I went to the facility this past Sunday to support them as they resumed their regular Sunday church services for the kids. Since it was the first Sunday of the year, several kids got up to share their testimonies of what God had done in the past year, or resolutions they were making for change in the new year. And then, Mary came up to the stage. Luc accompanied her because, by God's amazing providence, he also speaks the same language as Mary. Ever since Mary arrived at the Center, Luc's presence has been like a beacon of hope to her -- I imagine a very real demonstration to remind her that God had not forgotten her. You could tell Mary was still feeling shy, but there was also some spark about her, like something inside she just needed to let out. She proceeded to tell her story, through Luc. She arrived at the Center not knowing anyone or anything about the place. She was totally alone. Even though she had been in grade 9 in her home country, the staff placed her in grade 6 at the school on the premises. She struggled, she said, because she couldn't understand what the teachers were saying or teaching. The only thing she understood was math, because "the numbers speak for themselves." She said the teachers were gracious, spending extra time trying to help her understand. She reached out to another child and somehow, despite their lack of common language, they were able to communicate and help each other. The smile on Mary's face continued to get bigger and bigger as she told her story. You could tell that this was something she was meant to share. By the end of the school year, Mary said, she had passed all her subjects and now she'll be going on to grade 7. This is amazing! I sat there, my heart welling up with joy and awe. It was an encouragement to me, also still feeling like such a foreigner in this place, that Mary came and not only figured some things out, but learned how to thrive in such a strange new place. That's a tall order for any 14 year old, not to mention all that she had experienced to bring her to that point.
It was only after Mary shared her story on Sunday that I learned the previous parts of her journey. And that just made the latter chapter all the more amazing -- just think about what could have happened to Mary. And although visiting the Center is not always filled with pictures of hope and encouragement, on this day it was. Sure, most of the kids there wish they were with their real families, but Mary was experiencing the redemption of God on a daily basis. He had taken her situation, with the deception, death, and injustice it carried, and was turning it into something beautiful, in a place where Mary could succeed and discover who she was made to be. I was filled with hope as I thought about Mary's story and what else God might do through her.
Some good sites to check out regarding the fight against Human Trafficking:
International Justice Mission
Not for Sale
Slavery Footprint
Friends blogging about Human Trafficking:
Emily
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1 comment:
This is such an encouraging story, Emily! Thank you for sharing it with us. I love hearing about your life right now and the amazing people you are meeting. G, J and I are sending our love to you! <3 P.S. And thanks for the linkage!
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